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Calvinism and choosing the right friends, spouse, and church

I've learned the difficult way in the past that Calvinists are the wrong people to befriend and moreover marrying. Anyone who thinks that they have unlimited grace from God (living under the dispensation of grace as they claim) to sin is clearly a dangerous sociopath. If they have no problems abusing God's grace, they could care less of hurting you in any manner. As it is, narcissism and sociopathy are prevalent personality disorders among Indians (especially among women). Calvinism is clearly a sociopathic ideology. Hence, if you fuel their narcissistic sociopathy with Calvinism- they end up being monsters. The more I've looked at the Brethren, I've seen and experienced this. When carnal Christians marry each other- the end product is ungodly children. The modern Brethren churches are examples of this. When I've seen ungodly youth among the Brethren, I looked at their parents to see how they behaved and ungodliness was seen among them. Calvinism is Satan's tool to create sociopaths (his very own children). Hence, I've learned that it would be dumb to seek a spouse who is a Calvinist or similar Protestant ideology. A person's view regarding salvation and sin gives major clues to their psychology (mentality) and hence can warn you of ungodly people. I've learned that God desires His children to seek godly people to marry all in order to produce godly children.

Malachi 2:15 (NLT):
"Didn’t the Lord make you one with your wife? In body and spirit you are his. And what does he want? Godly children from your union. So guard your heart; remain loyal to the wife of your youth."

Proverbs 5:3-6 (NLT):
"For the lips of an immoral woman are as sweet as honey,
    and her mouth is smoother than oil.
4 But in the end she is as bitter as poison,
    as dangerous as a double-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death;
    her steps lead straight to the grave.
6 For she cares nothing about the path to life.
    She staggers down a crooked trail and doesn’t realize it."

Many times, I've failed to see such girls (especially the carnal Christians) as God's enemies. It took me some time to understand Calvinism and how it's created carnal sociopathic people who claim to be Christians (wolves in sheep's clothing). It's only then I realized that none of them are genuine Christians even though they use their false doctrines to justify being able to be dual minded (Jekyll and Hyde personality) Christians. Beauty of women can be such a deceiving thing. Christ taught that you can recognize a good person from a bad person by their actions. Many times, I've failed to recognize the sociopaths that were right in front of me- those who have come and gone in my life. Some nasty ones I've come across- truly the sons and daughters of the devil and the very enemies of God. Now I know better to always understand a person's psychology regarding sin and salvation before I befriend them. Whoever wants to abuse God's grace is an enemy of God. Whoever is God's enemy is my enemy. Sociopathic girls (both among carnal Christians as well as unbelievers) are some of the most dangerous vipers you can come across. Sexual promiscuity and snobbishness are some of the warning signs of such sociopaths. They are experts at psychological warfare. They can be flirtatious with you to try and lead you on but then at other times put you down and make you feel like you're not good enough for them. I've come across such sociopathic women (who are married or were in pre-marital relationships with other men) who've tried to be flirtatious with me (as well as other guys I know) in order for us to respond to their flirtation. However, I could sense that they had ulterior motives. They wanted to get me in trouble. One of my friends made the mistake of responding to the flirtation and it landed him in a lot of trouble with a girl's boyfriend. Both the girl and her boyfriend proceeded to smearing my friend's image in front of everyone else (notice how Satan operates in the same manner. Satan is known as the Accuser of the saints. He tempts people to sin but then goes and accuses them in front of God to get them in trouble. That's why human sociopaths are known as the children of the devil as they behave just like him). Such sociopaths are nothing but dangerous vipers that want to destroy you on so many different levels. Don't be deceived by their outer beauty, because they are ugly on the inside. Stay away from such vipers! Their nastiness has made them blind to their own stupidity. The Bible clearly states that sociopaths don't have eternal life in them (refer to 1 John chapter 3). In their sexual promiscuity, they let all sorts of sociopathic men defile them. Thus, they allow themselves to be destroyed on so many levels (both now and in eternity).

Matthew 12:30 (NLT):
 “Anyone who isn’t with me opposes me, and anyone who isn’t working with me is actually working against me."

Isaiah 59:18 (NLT):
"He will repay his enemies for their evil deeds.
    His fury will fall on his foes.
    He will pay them back even to the ends of the earth."

Deuteronomy 7:10 (NIV):
"But those who hate him he will repay to their face by destruction; he will not be slow to repay to their face those who hate him."

Hebrews 10:26-31 (NLT):
"Dear friends, if we deliberately continue sinning after we have received knowledge of the truth, there is no longer any sacrifice that will cover these sins. 27 There is only the terrible expectation of God’s judgment and the raging fire that will consume his enemies. 28 For anyone who refused to obey the law of Moses was put to death without mercy on the testimony of two or three witnesses. 29 Just think how much worse the punishment will be for those who have trampled on the Son of God, and have treated the blood of the covenant, which made us holy, as if it were common and unholy, and have insulted and disdained the Holy Spirit who brings God’s mercy to us. 30 For we know the one who said,

I will take revenge.
    I will pay them back.”
He also said,

The Lord will judge his own people.”
31 It is a terrible thing to fall into the hands of the living God."

2 Cor. 6:14-15 (NLT):
"Don’t team up with those who are unbelievers. How can righteousness be a partner with wickedness? How can light live with darkness? 15 What harmony can there be between Christ and the devil? How can a believer be a partner with an unbeliever?"

Jude 1:4 (NLT):
"I say this because some ungodly people have wormed their way into your churches, saying that God’s marvelous grace allows us to live immoral lives. The condemnation of such people was recorded long ago, for they have denied our only Master and Lord, Jesus Christ."

Many of today's Protestant churches have such ungodly people who have perverted God's grace into licentiousness and antinomianism. This type of theology is known in the Brethren as "Free Grace theology." Those who teach this theology as well as those who follow these teachings are ungodly. They are the enemies of God who have denied Jesus Christ by perverting God's grace.

I also had to learn the hard way to never have fellowship with Calvinist churches like the Brethren. Took me some time to recognize the vipers (narcissistic sociopaths) prevalent among them. They are experts at psychological abuse (bullying people).

2 Timothy 3:1-9 (authorized KJV):
"This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. 2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, 3 without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, 4 traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; 5 having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away. 6 For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts, 7 ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth. 8 Now as Jannes and Jambres withstood Moses, so do these also resist the truth: men of corrupt minds, reprobate concerning the faith. 9 But they shall proceed no further: for their folly shall be manifest unto all men, as theirs also was."

1 Timothy 4:1-2 (NLT):
"Now the Holy Spirit tells us clearly that in the last times some will turn away from the true faith; they will follow deceptive spirits and teachings that come from demons. 2 These people are hypocrites and liars, and their consciences are dead."

1 Cor. 5:11 (NLT):
"I meant that you are not to associate with anyone who claims to be a believer yet indulges in sexual sin, or is greedy, or worships idols, or is abusive, or is a drunkard, or cheats people. Don’t even eat with such people."

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